The Mindset of Me

THE MINDSET OF ME:

I SEE FISHES

THE MINDSET OF ME:

I SEE FISHES

by

Detra Smith-O'Bryant

About the Author

MEET DETRA

Detra Smith-O’Bryant is a woman of vision, purpose, and quiet strength. She is a wife, mother, CEO, and now an author—but more than titles, she is someone who has lived what she writes. Her journey has been shaped not by ease, but by intentional growth, deep faith, and a lifelong commitment to empowering others.

As an author, Detra isn’t just sharing stories—she’s handing readers a mirror and a mindset map. She writes from experience, not theory. Her words are rooted in lived lessons, unspoken wisdom, and a sincere desire to help people see themselves beyond circumstance.

She believes in purpose over perfection, vision over visibility, and faith that walks—especially when the path is unclear.

Detra is the author who reminds you that your difference is not a defect, that your story still matters, and that even when the tank looks empty… you can still see fishes.

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What if the life you dream of isn’t somewhere out there—it's already within you?

The Mindset of Me: I See Fishes is a deeply personal, empowering journey of vision, faith, resilience, and transformation. Through reflective storytelling, life lessons, and unshakable truth, Detra Smith-O’Bryant invites readers to challenge societal labels, break free from limitations, and shift their mindset with intention and courage.

Anchored in the powerful metaphor of “seeing fishes” in an empty tank—a childhood moment that became a lifelong mindset—this book is both a memoir and a mirror. It’s for anyone ready to trust the vision within, believe beyond what’s visible, and embrace their purpose even when the path is uncertain.

Whether you’re at a crossroads, chasing growth, or just beginning to believe in yourself again, this book will help you see that you were never empty—you just needed to make room to grow.

What Readers Say...

What I appreciated most is how relatable and real her writing feels—it’s like having a deep conversation with a trusted mentor. Whether you’re navigating change, healing from the past, or striving to become your best self, this book offers tools, reflection, and hope. It’s not just about motivation—it’s about transformation. Highly recommended for anyone looking to reclaim their power, reset their mindset, and live intentionally. Thank you, Detra, for sharing your heart and insight so beautifully.

Sara A.

I heard about Mrs O’Bryant’s book coming out. So when I found out it was on Amazon. I quickly jumped on it to order it. After reading her book of The Mindset of Me….I am very impressed with my read. This is a very enlightening message to all that wants to change their MINDSET.

Marcus O’Bryant

This book is faith-based, inspiring, thought-provoking, funny and transparent. As I read the book, I love how the author gave insight of her family relationships and the foundation on which she was raised that strongly contributed to the woman she is today. Also, I appreciate how specific scriptures were incorporated throughout the book which reflects the faith that anchors her and keeps her grounded daily. The book brings to life the love that was poured into the author by family, close friends and neighbors.

Jen W.

What an inspirational book!!! Read this, you’ll definitely be inspired!

Brittany King

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Signature Speaking Topics

The Mindset of Me: Vision Beyond Circumstance
From Setbacks to Setups: Rewriting Your Inner Narrative
Faith, Focus & Foward Motion: Living with Purpose
Seeing 'Fishes' – Cultivating Vision Before It's Clear
Empowered Leadership: Breaking Stereotypes & Building Legacy